Just addressing the issue
I remember not liking Junior High Youth just for the reason of it being too cliquey. No one would dare to step out of their comfort zone to talk to me. Then when I went to Senior High I was amazed at how open the people were. That really made me want to go to Youth and as a result I have been drawn closer to God. Had it not been for those who weren't cliquey I may have not liked Senior High just like when I was in Junior High.
And do we not see enough cliques at school? Well, aren't we as Christians supposed to be different? I think I remember reading before that having good friends are fine, but we need to put our fists in and say "Break!" and split up to welcome other people. We have to be there to serve rather than to be served. All of our needs have been met. We should put others' needs before our own.
Due to my reorganized thoughts of this subject, I feel the best thing to do wouldn't be to pray against "cliques" (as I originally suggested). We should pray that we could be so filled with the Holy Spirit that we would reach out to others and show God's love to everybody.
Thanks for your time,
Sharilyn Christie